Why donate?Self-Worth
I have said to many of you that self-worth is important to getting everything you want because we know that our minds create in direct proportion to our reality. So a person will always get in direct proportion to how they feel about themselves. No exception. This is law. (The Law of Attraction)
It doesn’t matter who you are, or what you have. Only by feeling good about yourself will you start receiving more of what is rightfully yours. So this isn’t about looking for reasons as to why you should feel good about yourself. If one tried to do this they’d soon find that the external is undependable. This is because everything on the outside of you is always changing. Cars deteriorate, lovers change over time, children grow up, etc. So attaching one’s self-worth to anything outside of you is foolish. Very foolish, and I understand that many of you are unaware that you do this and the cycle of pain you put yourselves in.
So, now what Ezra? If I can put my self-worth in anything outside of me, then where do I go from there. I say, “Excellent question and I have an excellent answer!.”
Your self-worth now must become FACTS about you. Facts are something that are like the laws of the Universe and mathematics. You must begin to start telling yourselves the things that make you feel the best about yourself. It could be anything and everything so long as it feels good to you. Keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel good and dwell on it. Ponder it and most of all accept it as a fact, because it IS.
I laugh sometimes because you are unaware that you are allowed to think of yourself in ANY WAY you’d like to think. This is very key. Many of you will allow others to tell you of how you should feel about yourselves which ultimately doom you to be a certain way forever. You are absolutely free to feel any way you’d like about yourself. Regardless of what your circumstances are or who is telling you how you should think. This is very key. So in the midst of your life, you can just start telling yourself: “I AM a wonderfully amazing person, and I just love being around me.” After a while of telling yourself that, your mind would just have to accept it as a fact. Amazingly enough, you’ll start seeing people respond to you totally different. Try this or something similar.
Once you start telling yourself the things that make your self-worth go up you will actually start to “change” into what you are telling yourself. This is law. It must happen over a period of time so long as you keep feeding particular thoughts to yourself. I will repeat what I said earlier: “You are allowed to think as highly as you’d like about yourself it doesn’t matter who you are.” (If someone tried to tell you that you are conceited or that you are fool to think such things about yourself then we would tell you that person is the one with the problem, because they need you to BE A CERTAIN WAY so that they FEEL GOOD. ) You will start to notice yourself feeling better right away, and you’ll feel liberated as well. This is so powerful, and you can take your self-worth as high as you want it, and you’ll notice your reality confirming how wonderful you are. It must.
Have you ever noticed people with low self-worth? They have poor relationships, friendships and life circumstances. Now take a look at someone with high self-worth and you’ll notice the exact opposite. This is not a chance happening, folks. These are the Laws of the Universe at work. It always starts with self-worth first. NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. Many of you will attempt to try and get something outside of yourself so that you can feel validated as a person. Even if you do end up getting that outside thing, the feeling it gives will only be temporary. When one just validates themselves FIRST by telling themselves the things that make them feel happiest about themselves they will eventually get ALL of the outside stuff. All of that stuff you are wanting shows up 10x faster by first telling yourself how great you are.
When one is self-validated they no longer need the “stuff” for their self-Worth. (Which is why many of you want the stuff to begin with! You crave it in order to feel better about yourselves. ) Ironically, all of that stuff just starts showing up even faster than before. It’s like after someone gets into a relationship then they notice how all the guys are rolling in after the fact. It’s because that person is now validated and the Universe says, “OK now you can have it all.” It’s rather simple.
Self-worth is one of the most important aspects one has to have down in order to get more of what they are wanting. It is my intent that this particular blog greatly empowers you to take huge leaps in the fun activity we call life.